I spent ten years taking more and more care of less and less of my father.
All my friendships desiccated and drifted away on cold breezes.
And if my ego was a party balloon, for those years it slowly was covered over in mud, obscured.
Then, my father finally died, having forgotten even to breathe.
Only later, I realized if ever I fell in love or had a son of my own, he would never know. And I saw that the balloon had popped long ago, and I was only walking around with the shell of mud in a party balloon shape, and that now it had all crumbled away.
And I no longer know who I am.